Laravel Relation where not in

I have following table

users

id | username | password

1 | scott | 98746
2 | mark | 6542
3 | michel | 6589

user_detail

id | user_id | status | mobile_number 

1 | 1 | pending | 987643210

2 | 2 | review | 3216547901

Now i want to retrieve those record where user has no records in user_detail table where status=pending

I have tried using relations in latest version

$user=User::with('userDetail')

        ->whereDoesntHave('userDetail',function ($query){

             $query->where('status','pending');
        })->get();

Same logic i am looking for without relations in laravel.Since we are using old laravel version which doesn't support.

via Chebli Mohamed